Not only can you find yourself drifting, but the message you are sending your firm and its decision-makers can be less than ideal. Uncertainty or indecisiveness can come across as a lack of confidence, or a simply lack of interest and drive.

And partnership isn’t generally something you can drift into. You have to want it. And the firm needs to know you want it, in addition to having the metrics in place.

If you are unsure about whether you want partnership, and you are bumping up against partnership as the next career step, here are a few things to consider to help find some clarity.

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Aligning what you want with partnership

Your goals, desires, and values will not always fully align with your firm’s. Even a full equity partner may find there isn’t complete alignment — arguably, they may even want more money for less work!

The key here is to work out what you value, what you want from your work and what your goals are, and then take a hard look at what the firm expects from partners.

To do this, you need to ask yourself (or have someone else, like a coach or mentor, ask you) some probing questions about what you like about your work, about what parts of the job you enjoy, about what makes you feel like you are adding value etc.

You can then compare this to what the firm expects of partners on a day-by-day basis. Looking at the substance of partnership and seeing if that aligns. If there isn’t full alignment, then you can see what you might have to do to make it align and whether that is something you are comfortable doing.

If you can’t make it align, then this can be a good indicator that a partnership isn’t for you.

You probably need to get out of your head

The classic situation if you are unsure when thinking through an option like partnership is to find yourself going around in circles. That is, you can highlight all the pros and then equally match them with the cons and find yourself right back where you started.

The solution is to simply test your assumptions. I like to refer to this as discovery. You need more information to make a better decision.

The best way to do this is to explore them a little further by talking to other people. In talking to someone else, you get to hear yourself out loud, and this in itself can be enlightening.

The art is to try not to become too focused on reaching a decision; instead, aim to be curious about the possibilities. Curiosity enables you to explore and consider, providing the opportunity for new perspectives.

Becoming too focused on the decision can be like editing a piece of work before it is written. You need to go through the process before you can reach the outcome of a decision.

Movement here is vital. In fact, movement is probably the number one thing I’m looking to help a client with, regardless of the situation. Any move forward, no matter how small, is progress. This is the groundwork for a shift in perspective.

Talk to people you admire or who model what you like

One of the issues that come up regularly for my clients is work/life balance as a con of partnership. What this means for you is very particular to your individual circumstances, but it can be useful to identify partners, either at your firm or elsewhere, who seem to be managing partnership in a way that you’d like to and see if you can line them up for a chat.

You can also take this approach with other concerns you may have, including staying in your current position. Who else in your firm hasn’t taken the partnership route, and what does that position look like? Is it something that is appealing to you?

Think about what influence you could have as a partner

Law firms are still largely hierarchical, and this means the further up the chain you go, the more influence you can have. That’s not an absolute rule, but being a partner does mean you can have more influence.

Sure, as a junior partner, you might not be able to enact massive change, but you will have a say and can have a bigger impact on the things you value, whether that’s work culture, which clients the firm should target, and the focus of business development etc.

You get to be part of the solution. It may be that some law firms are conservative and slow to change, but to change even a little requires people to want that change and do something about it. As a partner, you get to have more of an impact on the culture.

Think about what partnership might mean for your team

It may also be useful to think about what the impact partnership might have on the people you work with. Many of the partners I work with talk about what they value highly: supporting the career of their team members and ultimately helping some of them to partnership.

Being a partner will offer you more opportunity, but it also places you in a position to have a bigger impact on the careers of your team. This can be a very rewarding aspect of your career.

Remember: you can’t squeeze out all risk

In the end, the decision is yours. Well, at least the decision to try and become a partner — the partnership process itself has its own machinations.

All decisions have pros and cons, but in the end, you can’t completely squeeze out all risk and uncertainty. That’s just a part of life.

The key is to make the best decisions you can by testing your assumptions and remaining curious about the possibilities.

Stuart J Barnett is a thought partner and executive coach who works with lawyers. His clients include multiple BigLaw firms across the Asia-Pacific region.